If you’ve got a big family, your guest list might be full for Thanksgiving. There’s nothing more fun than the tradition of hosting the same family and friends for a gathering year after year.
Seeing the same faces and enjoying their company is likely something you look forward to every season but have you ever thought about adding to your guest list?
Including people you might not regularly see on your guest list can make an impact and change a life. In this season of giving you can greatly impact someone’s mental health by letting them know they are included.
Many People are Alone or Lonely During the Holidays
There are many reasons why people don’t have any place, in particular, to go during Thanksgiving.
Being aware and open to including others can really make a big impact on their mental health during the holiday.
As you ramp up for the special day, pay attention to people who could benefit from a special invitation to join you and your friends and family.
There are likely people in unexpected situations that would welcome an opportunity to gather rather than be alone.
Ideals of Those that May Enjoy the Opportunity to Be Invited
Host a College Student who is Far from Home
College students come from all over. Many are far from home and don’t have the time or the finances to go home for Thanksgiving. If you have college-aged children, encourage them to invite students to come to your home for Thanksgiving and enjoy a taste of home.
Host a Widow or Someone Newly Divorced
Life changes don’t get put on hold during the holiday. If you know of someone who has been recently widowed, divorced, or somehow finds themselves alone, be sure to include them in your gathering.
Your gesture can help them avoid depression or added loneliness that magnifies during the holidays. They may not be in the best of spirits due to their life situation, but you can offer them comfort and joy and help them find gratitude in spite of what they are going through.
Host Someone in the Area for Medical Treatment
Did you know many people travel out of their hometowns for medical treatment? There are families who are often displaced for other reasons too.
Pay attention to your network of friends and family and be on the lookout for people who are traveling or staying in your area for unexpected reasons who would benefit from the social connection on Thanksgiving. Offer to include them in your celebration and help them feel less alone.
A New Family in Town
Our last move brought us too far from family to get home for Thanksgiving or Christmas. A family from a church we attended invited us over with other families for Thanksgiving dinner. It was a group of four families with no other extended family in town to have that social part of the holiday. It was so wonderful to be invited to another home to spend time with others.
Show Your love for the People in Your Community
Including others at Thanksgiving can change a life. It’s hard to be alone on days when most people are celebrating. Being aware of those who are vulnerable, lonely, and needing support makes it possible for you to be a bright spot in their lives and truly make a difference.
P.S. They don’t care what is served or how your house looks, they will just be happy to be wanted and to celebrate the holiday with others.
